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12 Things You Should No Longer Be Ashamed Of
Everyone has things that make them feel ashamed. In fact, there are things we are ashamed of every day. If you really want to take your life to a higher level of consciousness and learn to be intentionally involved in a happy life, you must keep 12 things in mind. Being aware of these things can truly change your life and you can realize that you should not be ashamed of what you do or how you feel. Read on to find out what you should be proud to say, rather than hide in shame.
1. Trying your hardest
Anyone that makes you feel ashamed of trying your hardest, even in the face of insurmountable odds, should be ashamed of themselves for doing so. There should never be any shame in trying your best, even when you fully realize that the chances of success are very slim.
2. The food you eat
Sometimes people make rude comments about the foods you eat. They may comment that you should refrain from eating dessert unless you are already a size two or that you should skip meals. If you’re hungry, eat. Also, eat the food that you want to eat. If someone is making you feel bad about it, tell them to mind their own business.
3. Your body
People have the misconception that they should have the perfect body or should not be seen in public. It’s absolutely absurd. Be proud of who you are and the way your body looks. Never let anyone tell you that you should be ashamed of anything.
4. Past choices
Everyone makes mistakes. If you are too ashamed of those mistakes to own up to them, you just might make them again. Worse yet, you might be able to help someone else by admitting that you have made mistakes in the past and showing them that it is possible to succeed and live a happy life even in the face of those errors.
5. Being yourself
There is nothing wrong with marching to the beat of a different drummer. Sure, some people will make fun but even if someone else is laughing at you, the worst tragedy is giving in to the pressures of society and pretending to be someone you’re not.
6. Taking personal time
There is nothing wrong with taking time for yourself. If you want to be healthy, both physically and mentally, it is absolutely essential. Do not ever allow yourself to feel shame for doing this.
7. Showing your emotions
When you show your emotions, you become more human. It also makes you more accessible to other people. Nobody wants to deal with the person who acts like a robot. You should never be ashamed to show your emotions. You are just loyal to yourself and let others know exactly where they stand.
8. Friends and family
Sometimes people try to tell you who it is okay to spend time with and who you should avoid. Never allow anyone to do this to you. You decide who you want to be with. Whether the relationship in question is romantic or not, you should always spend time with the people you want to be with, no matter what other people’s point of view.
9. Your job
People are very proud of their work. That’s great if you have a prestigious job, but if you don’t, people can often make you feel ashamed because of what you do for a living. The fact is that you work and earn a living for yourself and your family. There should never be any shame involved with that.
10. Being an optimist
If you are optimistic, people will probably tell you that you are naive, or they will attach some other negative connotation to it. Do not listen to all these comments. When you expect a favorable outcome, you usually get it. By the same token, if you give in to negative comments and expect the worst, you can virtually count on that happening as well.
11. Having hope
Sometimes, people will tell you that you are silly for having hope that something will work out. You should never be ashamed of being hopeful. Sometimes, hope is virtually the only thing you have left to hold onto.
12. Forgiving others
Even if someone has done something horrible to you, it is easier to forgive them and move on than it is to be angry all the time. The goal is to live a happy life and you simply can’t do that when you are always angry. Learning to forgive is much better for you and for those around you, so don’t let anyone shame you into refraining from doing it.
In closing, you should never be ashamed of anything about yourself. Even if it is a mistake, you should own it, learn from it and be proud of the person you have become as a result of it. By following these steps, you can learn to do exactly that and you can live a happier life in the process.