So you have fallen for a man who was born under the water sign (February 18 – March 20)? Just like opening a floodgate, these guys will get into your head and it’s hard to stop thinking about them. The trickiest part of all is just how difficult they are to read. They are outgoing, yet withdrawn, hard-working, yet prone to lazy days, caring, yet distant – how do you even know what it is they really want?
First of all, you have to understand that a true Pisces man is a realist. They don’t bet on anything that isn’t a sure thing, so if you have already secured a few dates with this guy then be happy knowing that he genuinely likes you. As they have such an alluring and addictive quality about them you will no doubt be wanting more. But how easy would it be to make him fall in love with you?
Pisces men have very particular tastes. Following these simple, yet effective, astrology romance tricks will make him believe that all his good days have come at once.
15. Amp Up Your Flirting Skills
Pisces men love to flirt. They are naturals in the seduction game and they also enjoy when a woman flirts back. Looking directly into his eyes, putting on a winning smile, and winking at him every now and again is enough to drive him wild.
He loves his women in jeans and a sexy top, but nothing too revealing. After all he does see himself as the international man of mystery and much prefers his women enigmatic too.
14. Don’t Push Him To Reveal All His Secrets
Pisces men are secretive and quite mysterious. If you’re the kind of woman who likes to know everything that is going on in a man’s head, then he will drive you crazy and not in a good way.
Just because he likes to keep part of himself private does not mean he is being unfaithful or unkind – this is just their personality. If you resist from probing him for information then he will soon feel safe, secure and in love with you. Everybody likes someone they can simply just be themselves around.
13. Don’t Be Shy With The Compliments
There is no such thing as complimenting a Pisces man too much, they just can’t get enough of hearing how great they are. From something as simple as laughing at a joke of his to dropping him a message that he “looked great this morning!” it all gives him such a rush.
Let him know that you have been telling all your close friends just how wonderful he is and he will be like putty in your hands.
12. Don’t Nag Him About Working Too Much
Pisces men are very driven when it comes work and they find it difficult to switch off – mostly because they have no interest in switching off. If you nag him too much about how many hours he is spending at work, then this might put up a red flag that you don’t want to see him achieve.
The perfect woman for a Pisces man is the type who already has her own set of goals. He works hard, plays hard and needs someone who is eager for success too. If you can show him that you are willing to get to the top then he will throw himself into your arms.
11. Try Not To Be Superficial
If you’re all about materialistic values and what’s on the outside, then be aware this is a major turn off for any Pisces man. They much prefer to be wooed with wit and intellect than your hairstyle. Unfortunately, vanity is everywhere and can not be avoided, but try to practice mindfulness for at least an hour a week.
If you have landed a first date with a Pisces man then this proves that he has seen something in your personality he liked the look of. He isn’t the kind of guy to date a girl just because she’s wearing expensive shoes that’s for sure.
10. Become Interested In Art History
You don’t need to become an art expert overnight, but if you really want to make a Pisces man fall for you then show an interest in art history. He loves spending days at galleries or modern art museums, and if he knows that the lady on his arm is enjoying herself too then this keeps him very happy.
You don’t need to sign up for a degree, but at least brush up on the classics and know your Monet from your Michelangelo.
9. Learn To Give Him Space When He’s Moody
Unfortunately mood swings come with the territory when dating a Pisces man. The problem is you won’t ever know what is really bothering him, as most of the time he doesn’t even know himself.
They are naturally negative creatures when they become stuck in one of these slumps, so to avoid falling into a bad mood yourself try travelling somewhere you enjoy with friends. His respect for you will be doubled when he can see you’re not the kind of woman to put up with such behaviour.
8. Show You Have A Charitable Side
Pisces men are very charitable, they enjoy giving back to the community and those in need. There are many ways you can be more involved in charity without making a physical donation; donating your time to help out a local fundraiser, helping out at a bake sale or giving away old clothes/books/shoes to charity shops helps others.
The great news is, not only will your Pisces man be happy but you will also feel elated too. Consider it a double win.
7. Brag About Your Success
Being able to modestly boast about your own success will make a Pisces man fall in love with you. They like their partners to be just as driven as they are. The best way to display your own success is through your actions rather than words.
Walk with confidence, keep an air of professionalism about you and your Pisces man will find you hypnotic. A humble brag will always have him listening but don’t overdo it – nobody likes a show off.
6. Learn How To Be An Excellent Hostess
Pisces men love dinner parties, that is if all the guests can benefit him in someway – whether it’s laughing at his jokes or networking for business. What he does need though is someone who has the organizational skills that he lacks and can really throw a party.
Being a great host isn’t all about prepping delicious food and keeping the drinks topped up, it’s more about making guests feel welcome and comfortable. When it’s all over, he will be picking you up and spinning you around the kitchen with no idea how you manage to do it all. You will be like Wonder Woman in his eyes.
5. Respect That He Enjoys His Alone Time
Allowing a Pisces man the alone time he needs and not worrying when things go quiet is one of the biggest challenges you will face. You might feel rejected when he locks himself away but this is not the case. Pisces men need a lot of “me time” and an opportunity to reflect on life, you will find that when he reemerges your relationship will be stronger.
If you simply can’t cope when he withdraws to his man cave, then you might be hiding self-esteem issues of your own. Instead of chasing him, or backing him into a corner, have some time to yourself and a pamper day – you will appreciate the boost.
4. Be Willing To Take Control
One truth you will realize about a Pisces man when you’re in a relationship together is that he isn’t a big decision maker. In his professional life he is switched on and driven, but personally he struggles to take control. Start planning dates in advance and let him know what plans you have made for the two of you.
Instead of asking, “What takeaway would you like tonight?” ask, “Would you like chinese food tonight?” You will save yourself from an hour of listening to him weigh up all his different options. He will fully appreciate that you are in the driving seat and the one to make all the decisions.
3. Don’t Indulge In Gossip
A major turn off for any Pisces man is hearing gossip. If you love getting the latest scoop about office romance, or spend hours each evening with your head buried in tabloid magazines, then these might be activities you would prefer to enjoy in your own time.
There is a huge difference between blowing off steam about an individual and just repeating lies you have heard about them. A true Pisces finds such idle chit-chat cruel and a waste of energy – so withhold whenever you can.
2. Always Mind Your Manners
Being courteous and kind to others is a quality every Pisces man looks for in a woman. He doesn’t want you to be subservient, but thinking about others instead of just yourself is something he admires. He wants a lady on his arm to help compliment his gentleman-like demeanor.
Belching, yawning loudly, swearing in public, getting too drunk, or playing practical jokes are huge turn offs for him. If these are things you personally enjoy doing then a relationship with a Pisces man might not be suitable for you.
1. Be A Die Hard Romantic
One of the most endearing traits of a Pisces man is just how romantic they are deep down. Playing up to this side of his personality will make him lust after you like crazy. The best thing is they find even the most simple of gestures romantic, such as bringing them a coffee in bed or leaving a note behind that reads “I love you.”
A candlelit dinner and roses on the bed is enough to send them crazy. Get a hotel for the night instead of driving home late and make sure there’s already chocolates in the room. It’s all clichéd romance but they can’t get enough.